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This morning, I found myself wrestling with a thought that had no real weight—just a passing irritation that somehow felt heavier the longer I stared at it. It reminded me of the passage from Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: you don’t have to battle with every thought that wanders into your head. You can choose to let it go, like a cloud drifting across the sky.
We live in a culture that rewards analysis—breaking things apart, dissecting, finding meaning in every small detail. And while reflection has its place, there’s also wisdom in restraint. Not every thought deserves to be fed. Sometimes peace doesn’t come from conquering the noise but from refusing to amplify it. The mind loves to build snowballs; one spark of frustration can roll downhill into a mountain of imagined conflict. But what happens if you don’t push it? It melts on its own.
The ZAO has always been about creating new lanes for artists and communities, but just as important as creation is the discipline of silence—the ability to hold space, to not get caught in the churn of negativity. In our collaborations, this shows up when someone brings in an idea that might not immediately align with the vision. Instead of dissecting why it won’t work, we can pause, listen, and allow it to float by if it’s not the right fit. That pause is what keeps our ecosystem peaceful and adaptive.
I think about how many times a negative thought has tried to tell me a story: that I’m behind, that I’m not doing enough, that the work won’t hold. And yet, every time I’ve chosen not to chase it, I’ve found clarity waiting on the other side. The ZAO is proof of this—what started as raw fragments has grown into something far greater than I could have reasoned through on paper. That’s the reward of ignoring the noise: the wisdom of simplicity.
Today’s reminder is this: when the spiral starts, you don’t have to follow it. Step back. Dismiss it. And in the space that opens, let your creativity, your common sense, and your peace take the wheel.
– BetterCallZaal on behalf of the ZAO Team
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zm Not every thought needs a showdown. On Day 275 of the ZAO I reflect on the discipline of letting go. Full essay: https://paragraph.com/@thezao/year-of-the-zao-day-275