
Relationship
Relationship Progress Management: Neither too long, too short, too frequent nor too fast in love is advisable. I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.

I once met a girl
I once met a girl through the technique of striking up a conversation while traveling by bus, and she became my wife. At that time, I had just sat down on the long-distance bus, and she was sitting in the row in front of me. When she was about to buy the ticket, her wallet dropped to the ground. I picked it up for her and took the opportunity to start a conversation with her - it's better to speak up at the first moment of encounter, which will make the conversation seem more natural. If you ...

The right - timed love
The right - timed love, apart from being appropriate in terms of the time and progress of the relationship, also has a deeper meaning: one should find a balance between loving oneself and loving others. It is just like playing on a seesaw, where one needs to find a fulcrum that is acceptable and comfortable for both parties.

First of all, one must know oneself. What needs and desires do I have? Why do I like this person? What about him attracts me? What psychological deficiencies of mine might this be due to? Knowing oneself enables one to pay more attention to one's own feelings and not easily become infatuated with the other person. Secondly, one must see the other person clearly and not idealize him. What kind of person is the real him? How does it feel when he interacts with me? What does he need? To what extent can I meet his needs? In a romantic relationship, one should love the real other person; in marriage, one should live with the real other person.

First of all, one must know oneself. What needs and desires do I have? Why do I like this person? What about him attracts me? What psychological deficiencies of mine might this be due to? Knowing oneself enables one to pay more attention to one's own feelings and not easily become infatuated with the other person. Secondly, one must see the other person clearly and not idealize him. What kind of person is the real him? How does it feel when he interacts with me? What does he need? To what extent can I meet his needs? In a romantic relationship, one should love the real other person; in marriage, one should live with the real other person.

Relationship
Relationship Progress Management: Neither too long, too short, too frequent nor too fast in love is advisable. I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.

I once met a girl
I once met a girl through the technique of striking up a conversation while traveling by bus, and she became my wife. At that time, I had just sat down on the long-distance bus, and she was sitting in the row in front of me. When she was about to buy the ticket, her wallet dropped to the ground. I picked it up for her and took the opportunity to start a conversation with her - it's better to speak up at the first moment of encounter, which will make the conversation seem more natural. If you ...

The right - timed love
The right - timed love, apart from being appropriate in terms of the time and progress of the relationship, also has a deeper meaning: one should find a balance between loving oneself and loving others. It is just like playing on a seesaw, where one needs to find a fulcrum that is acceptable and comfortable for both parties.
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