First of all, one must know oneself. What needs and desires do I have? Why do I like this person? What about him attracts me? What psychological deficiencies of mine might this be due to? Knowing oneself enables one to pay more attention to one's own feelings and not easily become infatuated with the other person. Secondly, one must see the other person clearly and not idealize him. What kind of person is the real him? How does it feel when he interacts with me? What does he need? To what ext...

First of all, one must know oneself. What needs and desires do I have? Why do I like this person? What about him attracts me? What psychological deficiencies of mine might this be due to? Knowing oneself enables one to pay more attention to one's own feelings and not easily become infatuated with the other person. Secondly, one must see the other person clearly and not idealize him. What kind of person is the real him? How does it feel when he interacts with me? What does he need? To what ext...

Relationship Progress Management: Neither too long, too short, too frequent nor too fast in love is advisable. I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.

Relationship Progress Management: Neither too long, too short, too frequent nor too fast in love is advisable. I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.

It's simple to distinguish whether you love others excessively. Just check whether you are suppressing yourself and neglecting your own needs when being kind to others. For example, if your taste is clearly different from that of your boyfriend, yet you always only cook the dishes he likes, this is loving others excessively.

It's simple to distinguish whether you love others excessively. Just check whether you are suppressing yourself and neglecting your own needs when being kind to others. For example, if your taste is clearly different from that of your boyfriend, yet you always only cook the dishes he likes, this is loving others excessively.

When we are infatuated with someone, we may also love the other person excessively and ignore our own feelings and needs. Because you think he is your ideal and you definitely can't miss him. I once met a girl who said, "My boyfriend is willing to fight and risk his life for me. I love him very much and am willing to do anything for him!" I said to her, "A person who is good at or often uses violence to solve problems has such a personality. Now, he can fight for you against others. When conf...

When we are infatuated with someone, we may also love the other person excessively and ignore our own feelings and needs. Because you think he is your ideal and you definitely can't miss him. I once met a girl who said, "My boyfriend is willing to fight and risk his life for me. I love him very much and am willing to do anything for him!" I said to her, "A person who is good at or often uses violence to solve problems has such a personality. Now, he can fight for you against others. When conf...

This girl lacks a sense of security and is particularly eager to be protected. When a man is willing to risk his all for her, it just happens to fill the void in her longing for love. She doesn't know the real him; this isn't love, but an infatuation.

This girl lacks a sense of security and is particularly eager to be protected. When a man is willing to risk his all for her, it just happens to fill the void in her longing for love. She doesn't know the real him; this isn't love, but an infatuation.

I once met a girl through the technique of striking up a conversation while traveling by bus, and she became my wife. At that time, I had just sat down on the long-distance bus, and she was sitting in the row in front of me. When she was about to buy the ticket, her wallet dropped to the ground. I picked it up for her and took the opportunity to start a conversation with her - it's better to speak up at the first moment of encounter, which will make the conversation seem more natural. If you ...

I once met a girl through the technique of striking up a conversation while traveling by bus, and she became my wife. At that time, I had just sat down on the long-distance bus, and she was sitting in the row in front of me. When she was about to buy the ticket, her wallet dropped to the ground. I picked it up for her and took the opportunity to start a conversation with her - it's better to speak up at the first moment of encounter, which will make the conversation seem more natural. If you ...

If you love others excessively, you will stop caring about your own feelings. Everything they say is right, and you always put their needs first in everything you do. You rationalize your behavior and euphemistically call it "dedication". Over time, the other party may lose respect and love for you because of your lack of self - identity.

If you love others excessively, you will stop caring about your own feelings. Everything they say is right, and you always put their needs first in everything you do. You rationalize your behavior and euphemistically call it "dedication". Over time, the other party may lose respect and love for you because of your lack of self - identity.

The right - timed love, apart from being appropriate in terms of the time and progress of the relationship, also has a deeper meaning: one should find a balance between loving oneself and loving others. It is just like playing on a seesaw, where one needs to find a fulcrum that is acceptable and comfortable for both parties.

The right - timed love, apart from being appropriate in terms of the time and progress of the relationship, also has a deeper meaning: one should find a balance between loving oneself and loving others. It is just like playing on a seesaw, where one needs to find a fulcrum that is acceptable and comfortable for both parties.

To find a balance between loving oneself and loving others, in fact, it means maintaining a “dual - centered” approach: your feelings are very important, and my feelings are also very important. This requires our self - growth, understanding ourselves and seeing the other person clearly.

To find a balance between loving oneself and loving others, in fact, it means maintaining a “dual - centered” approach: your feelings are very important, and my feelings are also very important. This requires our self - growth, understanding ourselves and seeing the other person clearly.

I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.

I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.