Relationship
Relationship Progress Management: Neither too long, too short, too frequent nor too fast in love is advisable. I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.
I once met a girl
I once met a girl through the technique of striking up a conversation while traveling by bus, and she became my wife. At that time, I had just sat down on the long-distance bus, and she was sitting in the row in front of me. When she was about to buy the ticket, her wallet dropped to the ground. I picked it up for her and took the opportunity to start a conversation with her - it's better to speak up at the first moment of encounter, which will make the conversation seem more natural. If you ...
The right - timed love
The right - timed love, apart from being appropriate in terms of the time and progress of the relationship, also has a deeper meaning: one should find a balance between loving oneself and loving others. It is just like playing on a seesaw, where one needs to find a fulcrum that is acceptable and comfortable for both parties.
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Relationship Progress Management: Neither too long, too short, too frequent nor too fast in love is advisable. I have always believed that love is like cooking rice, where the heat control is crucial. If the time spent together is too short, the relationship will be undercooked like half-cooked rice; if it's too long, the relationship will get burnt like overcooked rice. A love that is just right is like seasonal fruits, which taste the best when they naturally ripen.
I once met a girl
I once met a girl through the technique of striking up a conversation while traveling by bus, and she became my wife. At that time, I had just sat down on the long-distance bus, and she was sitting in the row in front of me. When she was about to buy the ticket, her wallet dropped to the ground. I picked it up for her and took the opportunity to start a conversation with her - it's better to speak up at the first moment of encounter, which will make the conversation seem more natural. If you ...
The right - timed love
The right - timed love, apart from being appropriate in terms of the time and progress of the relationship, also has a deeper meaning: one should find a balance between loving oneself and loving others. It is just like playing on a seesaw, where one needs to find a fulcrum that is acceptable and comfortable for both parties.
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I have a client who once made three agreements with his fiancee: "After we get married, I need a lot of free time. I want to spend a lot of time with my friends and have my own space. So, if I marry you, I won't make any changes for you. Can you accept that?" The fiancee loved him very much and accepted his "terms of investment".
After getting married, he didn't do any housework at all. He often went out to play with his friends for several consecutive evenings, leaving his wife alone at home. After the child was born, he didn't take care of the child either and lived as freely as a bachelor. The wife was very angry: "You leave me at home to do all the housework by myself! Is it only my responsibility to educate the child? Don't you have any responsibility?" He was also very unhappy: "Look, I told you before we got married that I wouldn't change. Why are you going back on your word now?"
I believe that if a person doesn't change at all before and after getting married, it is equivalent to not getting married. Because the symbol of marriage is change, and in order to maintain an intimate relationship, one may have to sacrifice some autonomy.
I have a client who once made three agreements with his fiancee: "After we get married, I need a lot of free time. I want to spend a lot of time with my friends and have my own space. So, if I marry you, I won't make any changes for you. Can you accept that?" The fiancee loved him very much and accepted his "terms of investment".
After getting married, he didn't do any housework at all. He often went out to play with his friends for several consecutive evenings, leaving his wife alone at home. After the child was born, he didn't take care of the child either and lived as freely as a bachelor. The wife was very angry: "You leave me at home to do all the housework by myself! Is it only my responsibility to educate the child? Don't you have any responsibility?" He was also very unhappy: "Look, I told you before we got married that I wouldn't change. Why are you going back on your word now?"
I believe that if a person doesn't change at all before and after getting married, it is equivalent to not getting married. Because the symbol of marriage is change, and in order to maintain an intimate relationship, one may have to sacrifice some autonomy.
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