Play asymmetrical rewards:1 to 5. Risk 1$ to gain 5$ (and not 1$ to gain 20%).

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Whether you’ve just started the process of building wealth or you’ve reached financial freedom, you can benefit from strategies that help you adjust your mindset and not only create wealth, but keep it.

1. Understand that building wealth is about more than just money

The first step in understanding how to build wealth is realizing that abundance is about far more than just money. Tony makes a distinction between monetary wealth and true wealth. While the former secures your purchasing power, only the latter can secure genuine, lasting happiness. Money is merely a vehicle to carry you to financial freedom. Then, with financial freedom in place, you become able to pursue your dreams and find lasting fulfillment.

When you view wealth as a way to live an extraordinary life, you can eliminate any limiting beliefs about money that are subconsciously sabotaging your wealth-building strategies. Keeping this distinction between money and true wealth in mind will prepare you for the second step in building wealth: focusing on finances as they relate to your values.

2. Align your approach to building wealth with your purpose

The second step in building wealth is cementing an unshakeable mindset that recognizes your finances as a tool for pursuing what matters most to you. By building your deepest values into your approach to creating wealth, you align your financial decisions with your passions. To discover your deepest values, ask yourself: What do I want most out of life? What is missing in my life? What are my biggest fears? What do I feel is impossible? What do I want for the people I love?

Once you get in touch with your value system, you can align your spending priorities accordingly and get on the right path to building wealth, which includes building high-income skills. Incorporate these priorities into a feasible budget for living below your means and track your spending to hold yourself accountable. Once you’ve developed a baseline of financial freedom, you must “put your wealth to work” by investing it wisely.

3. Don’t trade time for money

The biggest difference between time and money is that you can always make more money – but you cannot create more time. When focusing on building wealth, too many people make the mistake of thinking that working more is the key to earning more. Unfortunately, when money is tied to work you must perform, you never really get to enjoy the wealth you build, which can lead to getting overly stressed.

Instead of trading time for money, focus on developing wealth-building strategies that involve passive income. Passive income comes from starting a business or creating a team that earns you money even when you’re not working. It can also be the product of smart investing.

4. Focus on investing

While developing a budget, saving money and making a good income are all important, the best wealth-building strategies involve investing. A smart investment strategy involves diversifying your portfolio, minimizing taxes, finding investments that match your level of risk tolerance and understanding the value of time and real returns.

There is plenty of information out there about investing tips and strategies and those who are smart about building wealth are constantly seeking new ways to educate themselves on the process. Learning how to invest wisely when figuring out how to build wealth is a necessity if you want to take your earnings to the next level.

5. Overcome emotional spending to retain your wealth

A critical component of building wealth that stands the test of time is keeping the wealth you accrue. Like growing wealth, keeping wealth requires making mindful decisions about how you invest and spend your money. Instead of letting emotional (unmindful) spending derail your finances, you must learn to control your emotions.

As you develop emotional mastery, you’ll find that, by becoming aware of how your feelings are influencing your financial choices, you gain the ability to make deliberate spending choices. In turn, as you tap into your inner creativity while sticking to your financial strategy, you’ll become confident in your ability to manage your finances and easily find ways to build wealth. The resultant cycle creates upward momentum – in learning how to build wealth effectively, you increase your self-efficacy, which in turn allows you to build more wealth.

6. Work on personal growth

Tony Robbins’ philosophy on financial freedom centers on self-discovery and personal growth as the cornerstones for building wealth. Personal growth is so pivotal to responsible money management that research has investigated the relationship. A study of more than 600 millionaires found that millionaires invest more time in personal-growth activities like reading and exercising than do non-millionaires.

Millionaires also manage time wisely, likely recognizing time as a limited resource that must be utilized strategically if they want to achieve their goals of building wealth. The study concluded that, with millionaires as the ultimate example of how to build wealth, a person’s ability to develop prosperity hinges on their ability to engage in self-discovery.

Self-discovery starts with examining your beliefs about money and wealth and identifying what is holding you back or contributing to bad financial habits. You can then go on to explore any gaps in your knowledge or education that are limiting you on your path to building wealth. Do you need to learn more about how to invest wisely? Do you require an advanced degree or additional training to excel at your job and fund your wealth-building strategies? From there, identify where you can improve and create a personal growth plan to work on those areas. Enlist experts such as a financial planner or business coach to help you overcome obstacles along the way.

7. Cultivate positive habits

Learning how to build wealth doesn’t need to be complicated. Instead, discovering your true self is really just a matter of bringing awareness to your actions, behaviors and underlying beliefs. Take, for example, actor Russell Brand who famously overcame addictive behavior by cultivating discipline and awareness into his life.

In learning to recognize negative patterns, you too can take the first step in breaking free from unhelpful behaviors that are holding you back from building wealth in your life. To jump-start your own process of self-discovery, incorporate mindfulness meditation into your daily routine. Tony Robbins completes a 10-minute priming exercise every morning to channel his energy and focus for the day. By bringing your body and mind into alignment via focusing your breath and attention, you become able to master your emotions and gain deeper insight into what drives you – so you can use that to begin building wealth.

When you understand the connection between building wealth and the life of your dreams, you can identify what’s holding you back and put in place wealth-building strategies that will take your money – and your life – to the next level.

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“All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was a vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible.” – T.E. Lawrence

Steve Jobs called them “crazy ones,” T.E. Lawrence called them “dangerous men,” but both recognized that those who dare to live their dreams are powerful outliers. Although we all have dreams, very few of us follow through to make our dreams a reality.

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And I’ll tell you this: one of the greatest lessons I’ve learned from these money masters is that you don’t have to predict the future to win this game.Etch that idea into your big, beautiful brain, because it’s important. Really important.

Here’s what you do have to do: you have to focus on what you can control, not on what you can’t. You can’t control where the economy is headed and whether the stock market will soar or plunge. But that doesn’t matter! The winners of the financial game know that they can’t control the future, either. They know their predictions will often be wrong because the world is just too complex and fast changing for anybody to foresee the future. But, as you’ll learn in the pages to come, they focus so intently on what they can control that they’ll thrive no matter what happens to the economy or the financial markets. And with the help of their insights, you’ll thrive too.

Control what you can control. That’s the trick. And this book will show you exactly how to do it. Above all, you’ll finish the book with a strategic plan that provides you the tools to help you win the game.

We all know that we’re not going to become unshakeable through wishful thinking, or by lying to ourselves, or by merely thinking positive, or by putting photos of exotic cars on our “vision boards.” It’s not enough to believe. You need the insights, the tools, the skills, the expertise, and the specific strategies that will empower you to achieve true and lasting prosperity. You need to learn the rules of the financial game, who the players are, what their agendas are, where you can get hurt, and how you can win. This knowledge can set you free.

If you already know a bit about investing, you may be wondering – as one financial journalist asked me recently –“Isn’t it just a simple matter of buying and holding index funds?” Well, Ray Dalio, David Swensen, Warren Buffett and Jack Bogle all told me that indexing is the smartest strategy for regular people like you and me. One reason why is that index funds are designed to match the returns of the market. Unless you’re a superstar like Warren or Ray, you’re better off capturing that market return instead of trying – and almost certainly failing – to beat the market. Even better, index funds charge minuscule fees, saving you a fortune over the long run.

I wish it were that simple, though. As a lifelong student of human behavior, I can tell you this: most people find it really hard to sit tight and stay in the market when everything is going haywire. Buy and hold tends to go out the window. If you have nerves of steel like Buffett or Bogle, that’s great. But if you want to know how the majority of people behave under stress, just check out a study by Dalbar, one of the financial industry’s leading research firms.

Dalbar revealed the gigantic discrepancy between the market’s returns and the returns that people actually achieve. For instance, the S&P 500 returned an average of 10.28% a year from 1985 to 2015. At this rate, your money doubles every seven years. Thanks to the power of compounding, you’d have made a killing just by owning an index fund that tracked the S&P 500 over those 30 years. Let’s say you’d invested $50,000 in 1985. How much would it have been worth by 2015? The answer: $941,613.61. That’s right. Almost a million bucks!

But while the market returned 10.28% per year, Dalbar found that the average investor made only 3.66% a year over those three decades! At that rate, your money doubles only every 20 years. The result? Instead of that million-dollar windfall, you ended up with only $146,996. What explains this massive performance gap? In part, it’s the disastrous effect of excessive management fees, outrageous brokerage commissions, and other hidden costs that we’ll discuss in chapter 3. These expenses are a constant drain on your returns – the equivalent of a merciless vampire sucking your blood each night while you’re asleep.

But there’s another culprit, too: human nature. As you and I know, we’re emotional creatures with a gift for doing crazy stuff under the influence of emotions such as fear and greed. As the legendary Princeton University economist Burton Malkiel told me: “Emotions get ahold of us, and we, as investors, tend to do very stupid things.” For example, “we tend to put money into the market and take it out at exactly the wrong time.” You probably know people who got carried away during a bull market and took reckless risks with money they couldn’t afford to lose. You may also know people who got scared and sold all their stocks in 2008, only to miss out on huge gains when the market rebounded in 2009.

I’ve spent almost four decades teaching the psychology of wealth. So, in the third section of Unshakeable, I’ll show you how to adjust your behavior and avoid common mistakes that are driven by emotion. Why is this so important? Because you can’t apply the winning strategies in this book unless you learn to “silence the enemy within.”

Then, together we’ll answer what may be the most important questions of all. What are you really after? How do you achieve the ultimate level of happiness you desire in your life? Is it really money you’re chasing, or is it the feelings that you think money can create? Many of us believe – or fantasize – that money will bring us to a point where we finally feel free, secure, excited, empowered, alive, and joyful. But the truth is, you can achieve that beautiful state right now, regardless of your level of material wealth. So why wait to be happy?

Money management tips

1/ Make a budget

Tracking your spending is money management 101. In today’s digital world, it’s usually easiest to track your spending on your phone, whether in your budgeting app or just in your notepad. You can also use pen and paper. Whatever you choose, follow these tips:

• Make time to enter your numbers

Tracking your spending won’t work unless you take the time every day to record what you spent. Ideally, you’ll do it right after you make a purchase. At a minimum, you must set time aside at the end of each day to enter your spending.

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• Categorize your purchases

Typical categories include rent and utilities, other bills such as car payments or student loans, entertainment and food. Break your food category into groceries and eating out – groceries are a necessity, while eating out is not. And don’t forget any additional categories like charitable donations or supplies for your pets.

• Get detailed

Save your receipts. Record information like where you went out to eat or what exactly you bought on that shopping trip. Could you go somewhere cheaper? Did you really need what you bought? Keeping track of the details is the first step to cutting back and practicing smart money management.

Once you know what you’re spending – and if you’re spending more than what you make each month – you’ll know how to budget and where to cut back. Use the same categories that you used to track your spending and set a limit for each month.

2. Cut back

When it comes to how to manage your money, even the smallest savings can add up. Here are some common areas where you can save on your monthly spending:

• Eating out

This doesn’t just include restaurant meals, but also takeout and delivery. A recent study found you save about $16 per meal by cooking at home. Bonus: You’ll eat healthier, too.

• Subscriptions

How much do you really use each of your streaming subscriptions? Can you cut one out or cut back to a cheaper tier? Don’t forget about other subscriptions like news or online gaming.

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• Cell phone bills

You need a cell phone – but do you need unlimited data? Do you really need the latest iPhone model, which you’re probably financing through your service provider? Take a look at your bill and see where you can save.

• Cable and internet

Like your cell phone bill, your internet bill may have some hidden things you don’t really need. You may be able to scale back to a lower Mbps (megabits per second) to lower your bill and cut out cable altogether.

3. Save

Cut back enough so that you are able to save. Even $100 per month will add up quickly in your money management plan. Make a savings goal part of your monthly budget – and stick to it. Better yet, dream big. Your savings goal will be much easier to achieve when there is a purpose behind it. Why are you working so hard? Do you dream of owning a home or traveling the world? Zero in on what you really want. Then create habits that will help you get there.

Having trouble with how to manage your money? Cutting back can be hard. Try these tips:

• Set SMART goals

SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable and Realistic goals with a Time frame. Setting SMART goals provides a roadmap to success and a way to measure your progress. And as Tony says, “Progress equals happiness.”

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• Find your purpose

Saving money for something bigger than yourself can give you the drive you need to cut back. Whether you want to provide a better life for your family or be able to give back to charity, linking your purpose to saving money is essential.

• Visualize your goals

Goal visualization is proven to work – that’s why so many successful people use it. Start your day with a 10-minute session and you’ll feel refreshed and determined.

4. Pay off debt

If you have debt in the form of credit cards or unsecured loans, it’s likely eating up a lot of your income. If you have large balances with high interest, you may never develop an effective money management plan unless you take massive action. Here are some strategies to pay off your debt:

• Use the debt snowball technique

This involves paying off your smallest debt first, then using the money you’d normally put toward that bill to pay on your next largest debt. This technique makes you feel good about the progress you’re making and helps you gain momentum.

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• Don’t add any more to your debt

It goes without saying that you should not charge any more to your credit cards or take out any more loans as you’re executing your money management plan. If you can’t afford to pay cash for it, don’t buy it.

• Negotiate better rates

You can often call your credit card companies and ask for lower interest rates. You can also move balances to new cards with low introductory rates. This allows you to pay more on the principle and pay off the debt more quickly.

5. Be a bargain shopper

One of the money management tips you could probably learn from your grandmother is to use coupons. This and other bargain shopping techniques like price comparison, using cash-back apps and buying certain items at times of the year when they are on sale are all ways you can stretch your dollars. You can also switch from name-brand items to generic and check the clearance sections when you shop to see if you can score a deal.

Some stores also offer reward programs that can save you hundreds of dollars a year. This is where loyalty to certain stores comes in handy. Buying all of your personal care items or groceries from a store with this type of program is an excellent bargain-shopping strategy as you’ll still get the name brands you prefer while still saving money.

6. Invest

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You might think you’re going to immediately buy that house, nice car or dream vacation. Think again. If you want to move beyond money management into truly growing your wealth, the first thing you need to do with your money is invest it – because what is money management if not your pathway to becoming financially independent? Here’s how to get started:

• Throw out misconceptions

Investing isn’t just for wealthy people. The truth is, you can start investing right now – with whatever amount of money you have. You can get started in real estate investing with as little as $500 to $5,000. Thanks to the power of compounding, even $1 per week becomes $1,067 in 20 years.

• Get educated

Compounding is just one financial term that educated investors need to know. Use online resources and people in your network to learn about financial terms like expense ratios and no-load mutual funds. Educating yourself will also help you avoid pitfalls like hidden fees and untrustworthy financial advisors.

• Get professional help

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Tony Robbins with a beard and headphones pointing his finger If you are new to the world of investing, ‘asset allocation’ can sound like a mouthful. But although it is the most important investment decision you will make, the concept is not as complicated as you might think. (It is the practical application of that concept that the majority of investors fail to execute. Don’t worry, we’ll cover both.)

Essentially, asset allocation determines how you’re going to break up your resources. The trick is allocating your assets in such a way that brings you the maximum reward with the minimum amount of risk. It also assures that you diversify, protecting your portfolio from sudden changes in the market.

Enter the three buckets.

There are three buckets of asset allocation: your Security Bucket, your Risk/Growth Bucket, and your Dream Bucket. Each one serves a specific purpose and should be given its due respect.

Safe and steady – the Security Bucket

The first bucket is your Security, or Peace of Mind, Bucket. This bucket will give you certainty in your life. This bucket represents the tortoise mentality – slow and steady wins the race. Except in this case, winning the race means not losing your life savings. If the Security Bucket were a car, it would be your family’s Volvo or old Toyota with 230,000 miles on it; it might not turn heads, but you’ll get to your destination in one piece.

Essentially, your Security Bucket is where you want to keep the part of your nest egg you can’t afford to lose. It’s a sanctuary of safe investments that you lock up tight – and then hide the key.

So what kind of investments would you find in – or allocate to – your Security Bucket? You want investment options with low volatility. Options such as:

1. Cash/Cash Equivalents (such as money market funds with checking privileges)

2. Bonds (such as TIPS, Treasury inflation-protected securities)

3. Market-linked CDs

4. Your home – An asset, but not an investment. This is your sacred sanctuary, so you shouldn’t be “spending” it!

5. Your Pension (if you’re lucky enough to have one)

6. Guaranteed Annuities (a good one!)

7. Your life insurance policy

8. Structured Notes (One with 100% principal protection, purchased through an Registered Investment Advisor)

These grow slowly, especially at first, but the power of compounding means you can find investments with maximum rewards in a secure environment.

Fast and volatile – the Risk/Growth Bucket

The Risk/Growth bucket is sexy and exciting because you can gain some truly amazing returns here. It’s the Alfa Romeo – beautiful and fast, but you might also end up on the side of the road wondering what went wrong. Because although you can be rewarded for your risk in these investments, you can also lose everything you’ve saved and invested. So whatever you put in your Risk/Growth bucket, you have to be prepared to lose it – especially if you don’t have protective measures in place.

Here’s a sampling of seven main asset classes to consider:

1. Equities – another word for stocks, or ownership shares of individual companies or vehicles for owning many of them at once, like mutual funds, indexes, and exchange-traded funds (ETFs).

2. High-Yield Bonds (aka junk bonds)

3. Real Estate

4. Commodities (gold, silver, oil, coffee, cotton, etc)

5. Currencies

6. Collectibles

7. Structured Notes (anything without 100% principal protection)

Depending on your personality, it can be easy to get caught up in great returns and forget how much you are risking in the process. Ultimately, it’s the right mix at the right time that brings you victory.

So how much goes in each bucket?

It depends on how much time you’ve got to grow your investments and how much risk you’re willing to take. Before you choose, consider these three factors: Your stage in life, your risk tolerance and your available liquidity. You’ve got to ask yourself, “How much risk can I afford to take at my stage in life?” But remember, you’re not diversifying just to protect yourself. You want to enhance your results to find the ideal blend of investments that will allow you to thrive, not just survive!

Ask yourself, “Before I invest, is this putting me at risk? Is this something I’d be better off having in my Risk/Growth Bucket or in my Security Bucket?” Don’t forget to diversify!

Don’t just diversify between your buckets, but be sure to diversify within them as well. As Burton Malkiel shared with Tony Robbins, “Diversify across securities, across asset classes, across markets – and across time.” Spreading your money across different investments decreases your risk and increases your upside returns over time.

Finally, have fun – the Dream Bucket

The purpose of the Dream Bucket is to have fun, setting aside something for yourself and those you love so that all of you can enjoy life while you’re building your wealth. It’s meant to excite you, to put some juice in your life so you want to earn and contribute even more. Think of the items you’re saving for in your Dream Bucket as strategic splurges.

Be creative! What can you not stop dreaming about? What makes you want to cry when you visualize yourself achieving it? It could be season tickets to your favorite sports team or theatre. Or a new car – maybe one that isn’t so practical. It could be handing over the deed to a new home to your parents and treasuring the look on their faces. Perhaps you fly a lot and dream of upgrading from Economy to Business Class? Your imagination is the limit.

Many people have a lot of money but not much lifestyle. They spend their lives watching numbers accumulate in a bank account and miss out on the joy along the way. Your dreams are not designed to give you a financial payoff; they are designed to give you a greater quality of life. So how do you fill your Dream Bucket?

There are three ways in which you can fill this bucket.

1. Jackpots – If you get a bonus or a windfall of some kind, you may want to fuel your dream tank with it.

2. Your Risk/Growth Bucket gets a positive hit and you score big. In this case, you may want to take some of the risk off the table and put one-third of the unexpected dividends into each bucket.

3. Save a percentage of your income and sock it away until you’re able to purchase your dreams. This would be separate from what you’re saving towards building your Money Machine. Utilize Tony Robbins’ techniques to reach your goals faster. a group of people holding wine glasses image©Rawpixel.com/shutterstock Celebrate!

You’ve just made the most important investment decision of your life. And once you know what your percentage is, you don’t want to alter it until you enter a new stage of life, or your circumstances change dramatically. You’ve got to stick with it and keep your portfolio in balance.

Holiday family gatherings can be a great way to catch up on conversation, but they are also a potential minefield of miscommunication.

Ever hear the phrase, “in polite company, never talk about religion, politics, sex or money” — and certainly not at the table, during mealtime. But money is a topic that can easily be brought up, especially among close family members. What do you do when someone makes a passive aggressive (or direct) remark about your finances?

First, try to remember that very often your family member’s comment is coming from the best of intentions. Their words may not convey love and respect, but frequently they are just worried about you and don’t know how to say so. Second, don’t take the bait. Instead, impress them with your financial insight!

Below is a list of some commonly overheard comments, a translation of their real meaning, and a way for you to respond. Use these to defuse what otherwise might turned into an emotionally charged conversation

Raising a fiscal family

Many people who are parents today grew up in families where it wasn’t polite to talk about money. Yet with national debt at an all-time high, the average American household carrying over $15,000 in credit card debt, and recent college grads facing the highest student loan debt ever, many parents lack confidence when it comes to teaching their kids about money – at the very time that financial education has become more important than ever.

So how can you raise kids who are financially savvy?

If possible, start early

Most financial experts agree that children have a basic understanding of money as early as three. And financial habits are mainly formed by the age of seven, according to a study by University of Cambridge.

Most toddlers could care less about money, but a rewards system that consists of a favorite television show or a tasty treat can help these little ones learn the concepts of money early on. When your toddler displays particularly good behavior, give them a homemade coupon. You can attach the value of a small treat for one coupon and a greater reward for 3-5 coupons. Your child will start learning about saving, spending and delayed gratification before you know it.

As your toddler begins to grow, play ‘store’ to introduce the concepts of trading money for things (just play with items you’ve collected from around the house). If you play with coins this would be a great time to help your child recognize the different values of the different coins.

Allowance

An allowance is one of the best ways to teach your child to manage their finances well. However you determine your kids should earn their allowance, giving it to them on a regular schedule will help them learn these management lessons rather than sporadic installments. When deciding how much your child should get for an allowance, there are a few things to think about: their age, your family income and what their allowance is meant to cover.

As soon as your kids start receiving an allowance, teach them to budget by providing them a breakdown of where their money goes. Percentages and categories will differ between households, but you might consider something along the lines of 40% allocated to spending, 40% to savings, 10% to charitable giving and 10% towards family taxes (more on this later).

For younger kids, provide their allowance in small denominations for easy allocation and save them into separate labeled clear jars or plastic bins so they can watch their money grow in each category.

As soon as you think they are ready – probably between ages six and nine – take your child to the bank and open up a savings account. This is also a great opportunity to discuss the concept of interest. When your child is a teen, take them to open a checking account so that they can learn to responsibly use their debit card before leaving home.

Saving

A savings chart is a great tool for kids of all ages. When your child has a savings goal, whether that be a new toy or a car, create a chart with a picture of the desired item at the top. Then, for younger kids, figure out how many weeks of allowance it will take to buy it and draw a box for each week. The child can then fill in the box with a marker or sticker when the money for that week is saved. They will feel so proud of themselves when that item is theirs and they bought it with their own money.

For older kids, this may be a separate savings account that they deposit allowance and/or earnings into to reach their goal. But their satisfaction in themselves and the pride they take it their new possession will still reflect that of a younger child! Spending

Teach your kids the value of making thoughtful purchases by allowing them to buy the luxuries they want. For example, keep food in the house for your kids to be able to pack their own lunches, but if they want to buy food at school, then they pay for it themselves. It could save you money, help your kids to be thoughtful about what they spend their money on, and likely ensure they eat healthier foods than what the school provides.

Kids don’t usually understand the cost of things aside from the sticker price, so it’s up to you to teach your kids about less obvious (or even hidden costs). If your older kids want to make a big purchase like an iPhone or a car, teach them about the added expenses of monthly data plans, insurance, repairs, etc.

When it comes to spending, your kids are going to make mistakes, and that’s okay! They will likely experience buyer’s remorse at some point and may turn to you for help. If this happens, compassionately let them experience the consequences of their actions, particularly if you warned them before they made the purchase. The pain they experience now will help them make better choices when the stakes are higher.

A deeper dive

Remember when you were working your first job and you were so excited to get your first paycheck? You’d worked hard for that money and probably already spent it in your head a dozen times. Then when that day came, you were shocked by how much smaller it was then you thought – because of taxes.

Issuing a “family tax” will creatively teach your kids about taxes from an early age. Steve Shaffer, Offers.com CEO, recommends a tax of 25%, but your family ‘tax bracket’ may differ. Then use the taxes to do fun things as a family.

Increase your teen’s investing savvy (perhaps your own as well) by allowing them to choose one company (or a few) that they know of and think are ‘good investments’ and the pretend to invest a specific amount in them. Follow the activity on the market together and see how you do.

Much like the family taxes example, you can teach your older kids powerful lessons about debt and credit now, too. If there is something they really want, give them three options: 1) Buy it now, 2) Save to be able to buy later, or 3) Borrow the money from you with an interest rate attached. Teach them that if they are going to borrow money it will cost them – and the longer they wait to pay it back the more it costs. Set up the rules of borrowing in advance.

Watch your language

Rather than saying “we can’t afford it” or even, “it’s not in the budget,” try saying “we’re choosing to not spend our money on that right now.” Talk to your kids when you decide not to spend money on something and be open about why you chose not to spend.

Particularly with young kids, teach delayed gratification by associating today’s “no” with tomorrow’s ‘yes.” For example, if you say no to a dinner out or a movie in the theater, explain that you’re not spending money on those things because we’re going to put that money toward an upcoming vacation. And, when your child asks a challenging question, try responding with, “Why do you ask?” This will help you understand their line of thinking behind the question before responding.

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Whether you’ve just started the process of building wealth or you’ve reached financial freedom, you can benefit from strategies that help you adjust your mindset and not only create wealth, but keep it.

1. Understand that building wealth is about more than just money

The first step in understanding how to build wealth is realizing that abundance is about far more than just money. Tony makes a distinction between monetary wealth and true wealth. While the former secures your purchasing power, only the latter can secure genuine, lasting happiness. Money is merely a vehicle to carry you to financial freedom. Then, with financial freedom in place, you become able to pursue your dreams and find lasting fulfillment.

When you view wealth as a way to live an extraordinary life, you can eliminate any limiting beliefs about money that are subconsciously sabotaging your wealth-building strategies. Keeping this distinction between money and true wealth in mind will prepare you for the second step in building wealth: focusing on finances as they relate to your values.

2. Align your approach to building wealth with your purpose

The second step in building wealth is cementing an unshakeable mindset that recognizes your finances as a tool for pursuing what matters most to you. By building your deepest values into your approach to creating wealth, you align your financial decisions with your passions. To discover your deepest values, ask yourself: What do I want most out of life? What is missing in my life? What are my biggest fears? What do I feel is impossible? What do I want for the people I love?

Once you get in touch with your value system, you can align your spending priorities accordingly and get on the right path to building wealth, which includes building high-income skills. Incorporate these priorities into a feasible budget for living below your means and track your spending to hold yourself accountable. Once you’ve developed a baseline of financial freedom, you must “put your wealth to work” by investing it wisely.

3. Don’t trade time for money

The biggest difference between time and money is that you can always make more money – but you cannot create more time. When focusing on building wealth, too many people make the mistake of thinking that working more is the key to earning more. Unfortunately, when money is tied to work you must perform, you never really get to enjoy the wealth you build, which can lead to getting overly stressed.

Instead of trading time for money, focus on developing wealth-building strategies that involve passive income. Passive income comes from starting a business or creating a team that earns you money even when you’re not working. It can also be the product of smart investing.

4. Focus on investing

While developing a budget, saving money and making a good income are all important, the best wealth-building strategies involve investing. A smart investment strategy involves diversifying your portfolio, minimizing taxes, finding investments that match your level of risk tolerance and understanding the value of time and real returns.

There is plenty of information out there about investing tips and strategies and those who are smart about building wealth are constantly seeking new ways to educate themselves on the process. Learning how to invest wisely when figuring out how to build wealth is a necessity if you want to take your earnings to the next level.

5. Overcome emotional spending to retain your wealth

A critical component of building wealth that stands the test of time is keeping the wealth you accrue. Like growing wealth, keeping wealth requires making mindful decisions about how you invest and spend your money. Instead of letting emotional (unmindful) spending derail your finances, you must learn to control your emotions.

As you develop emotional mastery, you’ll find that, by becoming aware of how your feelings are influencing your financial choices, you gain the ability to make deliberate spending choices. In turn, as you tap into your inner creativity while sticking to your financial strategy, you’ll become confident in your ability to manage your finances and easily find ways to build wealth. The resultant cycle creates upward momentum – in learning how to build wealth effectively, you increase your self-efficacy, which in turn allows you to build more wealth.

6. Work on personal growth

Tony Robbins’ philosophy on financial freedom centers on self-discovery and personal growth as the cornerstones for building wealth. Personal growth is so pivotal to responsible money management that research has investigated the relationship. A study of more than 600 millionaires found that millionaires invest more time in personal-growth activities like reading and exercising than do non-millionaires.

Millionaires also manage time wisely, likely recognizing time as a limited resource that must be utilized strategically if they want to achieve their goals of building wealth. The study concluded that, with millionaires as the ultimate example of how to build wealth, a person’s ability to develop prosperity hinges on their ability to engage in self-discovery.

Self-discovery starts with examining your beliefs about money and wealth and identifying what is holding you back or contributing to bad financial habits. You can then go on to explore any gaps in your knowledge or education that are limiting you on your path to building wealth. Do you need to learn more about how to invest wisely? Do you require an advanced degree or additional training to excel at your job and fund your wealth-building strategies? From there, identify where you can improve and create a personal growth plan to work on those areas. Enlist experts such as a financial planner or business coach to help you overcome obstacles along the way.

7. Cultivate positive habits

Learning how to build wealth doesn’t need to be complicated. Instead, discovering your true self is really just a matter of bringing awareness to your actions, behaviors and underlying beliefs. Take, for example, actor Russell Brand who famously overcame addictive behavior by cultivating discipline and awareness into his life.

In learning to recognize negative patterns, you too can take the first step in breaking free from unhelpful behaviors that are holding you back from building wealth in your life. To jump-start your own process of self-discovery, incorporate mindfulness meditation into your daily routine. Tony Robbins completes a 10-minute priming exercise every morning to channel his energy and focus for the day. By bringing your body and mind into alignment via focusing your breath and attention, you become able to master your emotions and gain deeper insight into what drives you – so you can use that to begin building wealth.

When you understand the connection between building wealth and the life of your dreams, you can identify what’s holding you back and put in place wealth-building strategies that will take your money – and your life – to the next level.

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“All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was a vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible.” – T.E. Lawrence

Steve Jobs called them “crazy ones,” T.E. Lawrence called them “dangerous men,” but both recognized that those who dare to live their dreams are powerful outliers. Although we all have dreams, very few of us follow through to make our dreams a reality.

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And I’ll tell you this: one of the greatest lessons I’ve learned from these money masters is that you don’t have to predict the future to win this game.Etch that idea into your big, beautiful brain, because it’s important. Really important.

Here’s what you do have to do: you have to focus on what you can control, not on what you can’t. You can’t control where the economy is headed and whether the stock market will soar or plunge. But that doesn’t matter! The winners of the financial game know that they can’t control the future, either. They know their predictions will often be wrong because the world is just too complex and fast changing for anybody to foresee the future. But, as you’ll learn in the pages to come, they focus so intently on what they can control that they’ll thrive no matter what happens to the economy or the financial markets. And with the help of their insights, you’ll thrive too.

Control what you can control. That’s the trick. And this book will show you exactly how to do it. Above all, you’ll finish the book with a strategic plan that provides you the tools to help you win the game.

We all know that we’re not going to become unshakeable through wishful thinking, or by lying to ourselves, or by merely thinking positive, or by putting photos of exotic cars on our “vision boards.” It’s not enough to believe. You need the insights, the tools, the skills, the expertise, and the specific strategies that will empower you to achieve true and lasting prosperity. You need to learn the rules of the financial game, who the players are, what their agendas are, where you can get hurt, and how you can win. This knowledge can set you free.

If you already know a bit about investing, you may be wondering – as one financial journalist asked me recently –“Isn’t it just a simple matter of buying and holding index funds?” Well, Ray Dalio, David Swensen, Warren Buffett and Jack Bogle all told me that indexing is the smartest strategy for regular people like you and me. One reason why is that index funds are designed to match the returns of the market. Unless you’re a superstar like Warren or Ray, you’re better off capturing that market return instead of trying – and almost certainly failing – to beat the market. Even better, index funds charge minuscule fees, saving you a fortune over the long run.

I wish it were that simple, though. As a lifelong student of human behavior, I can tell you this: most people find it really hard to sit tight and stay in the market when everything is going haywire. Buy and hold tends to go out the window. If you have nerves of steel like Buffett or Bogle, that’s great. But if you want to know how the majority of people behave under stress, just check out a study by Dalbar, one of the financial industry’s leading research firms.

Dalbar revealed the gigantic discrepancy between the market’s returns and the returns that people actually achieve. For instance, the S&P 500 returned an average of 10.28% a year from 1985 to 2015. At this rate, your money doubles every seven years. Thanks to the power of compounding, you’d have made a killing just by owning an index fund that tracked the S&P 500 over those 30 years. Let’s say you’d invested $50,000 in 1985. How much would it have been worth by 2015? The answer: $941,613.61. That’s right. Almost a million bucks!

But while the market returned 10.28% per year, Dalbar found that the average investor made only 3.66% a year over those three decades! At that rate, your money doubles only every 20 years. The result? Instead of that million-dollar windfall, you ended up with only $146,996. What explains this massive performance gap? In part, it’s the disastrous effect of excessive management fees, outrageous brokerage commissions, and other hidden costs that we’ll discuss in chapter 3. These expenses are a constant drain on your returns – the equivalent of a merciless vampire sucking your blood each night while you’re asleep.

But there’s another culprit, too: human nature. As you and I know, we’re emotional creatures with a gift for doing crazy stuff under the influence of emotions such as fear and greed. As the legendary Princeton University economist Burton Malkiel told me: “Emotions get ahold of us, and we, as investors, tend to do very stupid things.” For example, “we tend to put money into the market and take it out at exactly the wrong time.” You probably know people who got carried away during a bull market and took reckless risks with money they couldn’t afford to lose. You may also know people who got scared and sold all their stocks in 2008, only to miss out on huge gains when the market rebounded in 2009.

I’ve spent almost four decades teaching the psychology of wealth. So, in the third section of Unshakeable, I’ll show you how to adjust your behavior and avoid common mistakes that are driven by emotion. Why is this so important? Because you can’t apply the winning strategies in this book unless you learn to “silence the enemy within.”

Then, together we’ll answer what may be the most important questions of all. What are you really after? How do you achieve the ultimate level of happiness you desire in your life? Is it really money you’re chasing, or is it the feelings that you think money can create? Many of us believe – or fantasize – that money will bring us to a point where we finally feel free, secure, excited, empowered, alive, and joyful. But the truth is, you can achieve that beautiful state right now, regardless of your level of material wealth. So why wait to be happy?

Money management tips

1/ Make a budget

Tracking your spending is money management 101. In today’s digital world, it’s usually easiest to track your spending on your phone, whether in your budgeting app or just in your notepad. You can also use pen and paper. Whatever you choose, follow these tips:

• Make time to enter your numbers

Tracking your spending won’t work unless you take the time every day to record what you spent. Ideally, you’ll do it right after you make a purchase. At a minimum, you must set time aside at the end of each day to enter your spending.

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• Categorize your purchases

Typical categories include rent and utilities, other bills such as car payments or student loans, entertainment and food. Break your food category into groceries and eating out – groceries are a necessity, while eating out is not. And don’t forget any additional categories like charitable donations or supplies for your pets.

• Get detailed

Save your receipts. Record information like where you went out to eat or what exactly you bought on that shopping trip. Could you go somewhere cheaper? Did you really need what you bought? Keeping track of the details is the first step to cutting back and practicing smart money management.

Once you know what you’re spending – and if you’re spending more than what you make each month – you’ll know how to budget and where to cut back. Use the same categories that you used to track your spending and set a limit for each month.

2. Cut back

When it comes to how to manage your money, even the smallest savings can add up. Here are some common areas where you can save on your monthly spending:

• Eating out

This doesn’t just include restaurant meals, but also takeout and delivery. A recent study found you save about $16 per meal by cooking at home. Bonus: You’ll eat healthier, too.

• Subscriptions

How much do you really use each of your streaming subscriptions? Can you cut one out or cut back to a cheaper tier? Don’t forget about other subscriptions like news or online gaming.

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• Cell phone bills

You need a cell phone – but do you need unlimited data? Do you really need the latest iPhone model, which you’re probably financing through your service provider? Take a look at your bill and see where you can save.

• Cable and internet

Like your cell phone bill, your internet bill may have some hidden things you don’t really need. You may be able to scale back to a lower Mbps (megabits per second) to lower your bill and cut out cable altogether.

3. Save

Cut back enough so that you are able to save. Even $100 per month will add up quickly in your money management plan. Make a savings goal part of your monthly budget – and stick to it. Better yet, dream big. Your savings goal will be much easier to achieve when there is a purpose behind it. Why are you working so hard? Do you dream of owning a home or traveling the world? Zero in on what you really want. Then create habits that will help you get there.

Having trouble with how to manage your money? Cutting back can be hard. Try these tips:

• Set SMART goals

SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable and Realistic goals with a Time frame. Setting SMART goals provides a roadmap to success and a way to measure your progress. And as Tony says, “Progress equals happiness.”

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• Find your purpose

Saving money for something bigger than yourself can give you the drive you need to cut back. Whether you want to provide a better life for your family or be able to give back to charity, linking your purpose to saving money is essential.

• Visualize your goals

Goal visualization is proven to work – that’s why so many successful people use it. Start your day with a 10-minute session and you’ll feel refreshed and determined.

4. Pay off debt

If you have debt in the form of credit cards or unsecured loans, it’s likely eating up a lot of your income. If you have large balances with high interest, you may never develop an effective money management plan unless you take massive action. Here are some strategies to pay off your debt:

• Use the debt snowball technique

This involves paying off your smallest debt first, then using the money you’d normally put toward that bill to pay on your next largest debt. This technique makes you feel good about the progress you’re making and helps you gain momentum.

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• Don’t add any more to your debt

It goes without saying that you should not charge any more to your credit cards or take out any more loans as you’re executing your money management plan. If you can’t afford to pay cash for it, don’t buy it.

• Negotiate better rates

You can often call your credit card companies and ask for lower interest rates. You can also move balances to new cards with low introductory rates. This allows you to pay more on the principle and pay off the debt more quickly.

5. Be a bargain shopper

One of the money management tips you could probably learn from your grandmother is to use coupons. This and other bargain shopping techniques like price comparison, using cash-back apps and buying certain items at times of the year when they are on sale are all ways you can stretch your dollars. You can also switch from name-brand items to generic and check the clearance sections when you shop to see if you can score a deal.

Some stores also offer reward programs that can save you hundreds of dollars a year. This is where loyalty to certain stores comes in handy. Buying all of your personal care items or groceries from a store with this type of program is an excellent bargain-shopping strategy as you’ll still get the name brands you prefer while still saving money.

6. Invest

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You might think you’re going to immediately buy that house, nice car or dream vacation. Think again. If you want to move beyond money management into truly growing your wealth, the first thing you need to do with your money is invest it – because what is money management if not your pathway to becoming financially independent? Here’s how to get started:

• Throw out misconceptions

Investing isn’t just for wealthy people. The truth is, you can start investing right now – with whatever amount of money you have. You can get started in real estate investing with as little as $500 to $5,000. Thanks to the power of compounding, even $1 per week becomes $1,067 in 20 years.

• Get educated

Compounding is just one financial term that educated investors need to know. Use online resources and people in your network to learn about financial terms like expense ratios and no-load mutual funds. Educating yourself will also help you avoid pitfalls like hidden fees and untrustworthy financial advisors.

• Get professional help

Tony Robbins has many financial advice podcasts and articles to get you started. Want to go all in? Wealth Mastery events will surround you with an undeniable energy – and transform your finances.

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Tony Robbins with a beard and headphones pointing his finger If you are new to the world of investing, ‘asset allocation’ can sound like a mouthful. But although it is the most important investment decision you will make, the concept is not as complicated as you might think. (It is the practical application of that concept that the majority of investors fail to execute. Don’t worry, we’ll cover both.)

Essentially, asset allocation determines how you’re going to break up your resources. The trick is allocating your assets in such a way that brings you the maximum reward with the minimum amount of risk. It also assures that you diversify, protecting your portfolio from sudden changes in the market.

Enter the three buckets.

There are three buckets of asset allocation: your Security Bucket, your Risk/Growth Bucket, and your Dream Bucket. Each one serves a specific purpose and should be given its due respect.

Safe and steady – the Security Bucket

The first bucket is your Security, or Peace of Mind, Bucket. This bucket will give you certainty in your life. This bucket represents the tortoise mentality – slow and steady wins the race. Except in this case, winning the race means not losing your life savings. If the Security Bucket were a car, it would be your family’s Volvo or old Toyota with 230,000 miles on it; it might not turn heads, but you’ll get to your destination in one piece.

Essentially, your Security Bucket is where you want to keep the part of your nest egg you can’t afford to lose. It’s a sanctuary of safe investments that you lock up tight – and then hide the key.

So what kind of investments would you find in – or allocate to – your Security Bucket? You want investment options with low volatility. Options such as:

1. Cash/Cash Equivalents (such as money market funds with checking privileges)

2. Bonds (such as TIPS, Treasury inflation-protected securities)

3. Market-linked CDs

4. Your home – An asset, but not an investment. This is your sacred sanctuary, so you shouldn’t be “spending” it!

5. Your Pension (if you’re lucky enough to have one)

6. Guaranteed Annuities (a good one!)

7. Your life insurance policy

8. Structured Notes (One with 100% principal protection, purchased through an Registered Investment Advisor)

These grow slowly, especially at first, but the power of compounding means you can find investments with maximum rewards in a secure environment.

Fast and volatile – the Risk/Growth Bucket

The Risk/Growth bucket is sexy and exciting because you can gain some truly amazing returns here. It’s the Alfa Romeo – beautiful and fast, but you might also end up on the side of the road wondering what went wrong. Because although you can be rewarded for your risk in these investments, you can also lose everything you’ve saved and invested. So whatever you put in your Risk/Growth bucket, you have to be prepared to lose it – especially if you don’t have protective measures in place.

Here’s a sampling of seven main asset classes to consider:

1. Equities – another word for stocks, or ownership shares of individual companies or vehicles for owning many of them at once, like mutual funds, indexes, and exchange-traded funds (ETFs).

2. High-Yield Bonds (aka junk bonds)

3. Real Estate

4. Commodities (gold, silver, oil, coffee, cotton, etc)

5. Currencies

6. Collectibles

7. Structured Notes (anything without 100% principal protection)

Depending on your personality, it can be easy to get caught up in great returns and forget how much you are risking in the process. Ultimately, it’s the right mix at the right time that brings you victory.

So how much goes in each bucket?

It depends on how much time you’ve got to grow your investments and how much risk you’re willing to take. Before you choose, consider these three factors: Your stage in life, your risk tolerance and your available liquidity. You’ve got to ask yourself, “How much risk can I afford to take at my stage in life?” But remember, you’re not diversifying just to protect yourself. You want to enhance your results to find the ideal blend of investments that will allow you to thrive, not just survive!

Ask yourself, “Before I invest, is this putting me at risk? Is this something I’d be better off having in my Risk/Growth Bucket or in my Security Bucket?” Don’t forget to diversify!

Don’t just diversify between your buckets, but be sure to diversify within them as well. As Burton Malkiel shared with Tony Robbins, “Diversify across securities, across asset classes, across markets – and across time.” Spreading your money across different investments decreases your risk and increases your upside returns over time.

Finally, have fun – the Dream Bucket

The purpose of the Dream Bucket is to have fun, setting aside something for yourself and those you love so that all of you can enjoy life while you’re building your wealth. It’s meant to excite you, to put some juice in your life so you want to earn and contribute even more. Think of the items you’re saving for in your Dream Bucket as strategic splurges.

Be creative! What can you not stop dreaming about? What makes you want to cry when you visualize yourself achieving it? It could be season tickets to your favorite sports team or theatre. Or a new car – maybe one that isn’t so practical. It could be handing over the deed to a new home to your parents and treasuring the look on their faces. Perhaps you fly a lot and dream of upgrading from Economy to Business Class? Your imagination is the limit.

Many people have a lot of money but not much lifestyle. They spend their lives watching numbers accumulate in a bank account and miss out on the joy along the way. Your dreams are not designed to give you a financial payoff; they are designed to give you a greater quality of life. So how do you fill your Dream Bucket?

There are three ways in which you can fill this bucket.

1. Jackpots – If you get a bonus or a windfall of some kind, you may want to fuel your dream tank with it.

2. Your Risk/Growth Bucket gets a positive hit and you score big. In this case, you may want to take some of the risk off the table and put one-third of the unexpected dividends into each bucket.

3. Save a percentage of your income and sock it away until you’re able to purchase your dreams. This would be separate from what you’re saving towards building your Money Machine. Utilize Tony Robbins’ techniques to reach your goals faster. a group of people holding wine glasses image©Rawpixel.com/shutterstock Celebrate!

You’ve just made the most important investment decision of your life. And once you know what your percentage is, you don’t want to alter it until you enter a new stage of life, or your circumstances change dramatically. You’ve got to stick with it and keep your portfolio in balance.

Holiday family gatherings can be a great way to catch up on conversation, but they are also a potential minefield of miscommunication.

Ever hear the phrase, “in polite company, never talk about religion, politics, sex or money” — and certainly not at the table, during mealtime. But money is a topic that can easily be brought up, especially among close family members. What do you do when someone makes a passive aggressive (or direct) remark about your finances?

First, try to remember that very often your family member’s comment is coming from the best of intentions. Their words may not convey love and respect, but frequently they are just worried about you and don’t know how to say so. Second, don’t take the bait. Instead, impress them with your financial insight!

Below is a list of some commonly overheard comments, a translation of their real meaning, and a way for you to respond. Use these to defuse what otherwise might turned into an emotionally charged conversation

Raising a fiscal family

Many people who are parents today grew up in families where it wasn’t polite to talk about money. Yet with national debt at an all-time high, the average American household carrying over $15,000 in credit card debt, and recent college grads facing the highest student loan debt ever, many parents lack confidence when it comes to teaching their kids about money – at the very time that financial education has become more important than ever.

So how can you raise kids who are financially savvy?

If possible, start early

Most financial experts agree that children have a basic understanding of money as early as three. And financial habits are mainly formed by the age of seven, according to a study by University of Cambridge.

Most toddlers could care less about money, but a rewards system that consists of a favorite television show or a tasty treat can help these little ones learn the concepts of money early on. When your toddler displays particularly good behavior, give them a homemade coupon. You can attach the value of a small treat for one coupon and a greater reward for 3-5 coupons. Your child will start learning about saving, spending and delayed gratification before you know it.

As your toddler begins to grow, play ‘store’ to introduce the concepts of trading money for things (just play with items you’ve collected from around the house). If you play with coins this would be a great time to help your child recognize the different values of the different coins.

Allowance

An allowance is one of the best ways to teach your child to manage their finances well. However you determine your kids should earn their allowance, giving it to them on a regular schedule will help them learn these management lessons rather than sporadic installments. When deciding how much your child should get for an allowance, there are a few things to think about: their age, your family income and what their allowance is meant to cover.

As soon as your kids start receiving an allowance, teach them to budget by providing them a breakdown of where their money goes. Percentages and categories will differ between households, but you might consider something along the lines of 40% allocated to spending, 40% to savings, 10% to charitable giving and 10% towards family taxes (more on this later).

For younger kids, provide their allowance in small denominations for easy allocation and save them into separate labeled clear jars or plastic bins so they can watch their money grow in each category.

As soon as you think they are ready – probably between ages six and nine – take your child to the bank and open up a savings account. This is also a great opportunity to discuss the concept of interest. When your child is a teen, take them to open a checking account so that they can learn to responsibly use their debit card before leaving home.

Saving

A savings chart is a great tool for kids of all ages. When your child has a savings goal, whether that be a new toy or a car, create a chart with a picture of the desired item at the top. Then, for younger kids, figure out how many weeks of allowance it will take to buy it and draw a box for each week. The child can then fill in the box with a marker or sticker when the money for that week is saved. They will feel so proud of themselves when that item is theirs and they bought it with their own money.

For older kids, this may be a separate savings account that they deposit allowance and/or earnings into to reach their goal. But their satisfaction in themselves and the pride they take it their new possession will still reflect that of a younger child! Spending

Teach your kids the value of making thoughtful purchases by allowing them to buy the luxuries they want. For example, keep food in the house for your kids to be able to pack their own lunches, but if they want to buy food at school, then they pay for it themselves. It could save you money, help your kids to be thoughtful about what they spend their money on, and likely ensure they eat healthier foods than what the school provides.

Kids don’t usually understand the cost of things aside from the sticker price, so it’s up to you to teach your kids about less obvious (or even hidden costs). If your older kids want to make a big purchase like an iPhone or a car, teach them about the added expenses of monthly data plans, insurance, repairs, etc.

When it comes to spending, your kids are going to make mistakes, and that’s okay! They will likely experience buyer’s remorse at some point and may turn to you for help. If this happens, compassionately let them experience the consequences of their actions, particularly if you warned them before they made the purchase. The pain they experience now will help them make better choices when the stakes are higher.

A deeper dive

Remember when you were working your first job and you were so excited to get your first paycheck? You’d worked hard for that money and probably already spent it in your head a dozen times. Then when that day came, you were shocked by how much smaller it was then you thought – because of taxes.

Issuing a “family tax” will creatively teach your kids about taxes from an early age. Steve Shaffer, Offers.com CEO, recommends a tax of 25%, but your family ‘tax bracket’ may differ. Then use the taxes to do fun things as a family.

Increase your teen’s investing savvy (perhaps your own as well) by allowing them to choose one company (or a few) that they know of and think are ‘good investments’ and the pretend to invest a specific amount in them. Follow the activity on the market together and see how you do.

Much like the family taxes example, you can teach your older kids powerful lessons about debt and credit now, too. If there is something they really want, give them three options: 1) Buy it now, 2) Save to be able to buy later, or 3) Borrow the money from you with an interest rate attached. Teach them that if they are going to borrow money it will cost them – and the longer they wait to pay it back the more it costs. Set up the rules of borrowing in advance.

Watch your language

Rather than saying “we can’t afford it” or even, “it’s not in the budget,” try saying “we’re choosing to not spend our money on that right now.” Talk to your kids when you decide not to spend money on something and be open about why you chose not to spend.

Particularly with young kids, teach delayed gratification by associating today’s “no” with tomorrow’s ‘yes.” For example, if you say no to a dinner out or a movie in the theater, explain that you’re not spending money on those things because we’re going to put that money toward an upcoming vacation. And, when your child asks a challenging question, try responding with, “Why do you ask?” This will help you understand their line of thinking behind the question before responding.