Jordi Kidsune1.2.5 Find your core wants and drivers
"Knowing what you want is the first step towards getting it." - Mae West In this chapter, you will embark on a journey to discover and understand your core drivers - the motivating forces that influence your behavior and decision-making. You will learn about the concept of the "Yearning Octopus," which is a metaphor for the various wants and desires that shape our goals and motivations. You will also discover the importance of identifying, prioritizing and fulfilling your wants, and the role ...
Jordi Kidsune1.2.6 Find purpose and meaning
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away” - Pablo Picasso It’s a question as old as time: “What is my purpose in life?” As far back as the fourth century BC, Aristotle was pondering life’s purpose and developing his theory of teleology, or the idea that everything in life has purpose. In today’s fast-paced, technology-filled world where we are being pulled in many directions at once, finding the purpose of life seems more important than ever. Finding m...
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Jordi Kidsune1.2.5 Find your core wants and drivers
"Knowing what you want is the first step towards getting it." - Mae West In this chapter, you will embark on a journey to discover and understand your core drivers - the motivating forces that influence your behavior and decision-making. You will learn about the concept of the "Yearning Octopus," which is a metaphor for the various wants and desires that shape our goals and motivations. You will also discover the importance of identifying, prioritizing and fulfilling your wants, and the role ...
Jordi Kidsune1.2.6 Find purpose and meaning
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away” - Pablo Picasso It’s a question as old as time: “What is my purpose in life?” As far back as the fourth century BC, Aristotle was pondering life’s purpose and developing his theory of teleology, or the idea that everything in life has purpose. In today’s fast-paced, technology-filled world where we are being pulled in many directions at once, finding the purpose of life seems more important than ever. Finding m...
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An elegant way to tie a scarfGreat free websites:Source 1How to fold the world-record paper airplane
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Key points: Sex = good for you. Humans = not monogamous. When not in a relationship, I just hire fashion models to have sex with in order to save time on dating and focus on other priorities. Great sex = biochemistry.
I think of sex as something similar to exercise, meditation, or food. Another physiological need to be addressed in a time-efficient way; another tool to enhance health (talking about safe sex obviously) and intelligence. There are many reasons why sex is useful for intelligence:
If we do not get it, we spend a lot of time thinking about it. Pursuing it, watching porn etc. Useless distractions.
Society is sexualized and ties the male ego to having sex. Doing so makes the ego content and easier to control.
Sex leads to favorable hormone profile changes that enhance mood, and reduce stress [1] and even help sleep [1]. Funnily enough I even noticed a very clear correlation between sex and my own deep sleep levels, and anything that improves deep sleep is very valuable.
There is evidence that sex boosts our neurogenesis and neuroplasticity. [1]
Getting great sex takes too much time and energy:
Dating takes a lot of time. Much of that time is wasted. On people who are not a good fit. On idiotic things like swiping on Tinder or going to clubs (screws with sleep). Casual dating = trading our time and energy for sex and reassuring our ego that we are desirable.
Monogamous long-term relationships can be great if we are together with someone who is a true friend and shares our values — I was in a MLTR that truly made my life better and it might happen again. But MLTRs are a challenging solution for sexual desires. Human biology is not monogamous. I quote: “Overall, of the 1,231 cultures in the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook, 84.6 percent are classified as polygynous [one man many women], 15.1 percent as monogamous, and 0.3 percent as polyandrous [one woman many men].” [1].
Just straight up paying for sex in one-time cash meetings off the Internet is frankly emotionally-unpleasant.
Masturbation doesn’t deliver the same benefits for some reason. It seems we do trick our brains, but not fully.
Further reading:
Key points: Sex = good for you. Humans = not monogamous. When not in a relationship, I just hire fashion models to have sex with in order to save time on dating and focus on other priorities. Great sex = biochemistry.
I think of sex as something similar to exercise, meditation, or food. Another physiological need to be addressed in a time-efficient way; another tool to enhance health (talking about safe sex obviously) and intelligence. There are many reasons why sex is useful for intelligence:
If we do not get it, we spend a lot of time thinking about it. Pursuing it, watching porn etc. Useless distractions.
Society is sexualized and ties the male ego to having sex. Doing so makes the ego content and easier to control.
Sex leads to favorable hormone profile changes that enhance mood, and reduce stress [1] and even help sleep [1]. Funnily enough I even noticed a very clear correlation between sex and my own deep sleep levels, and anything that improves deep sleep is very valuable.
There is evidence that sex boosts our neurogenesis and neuroplasticity. [1]
Getting great sex takes too much time and energy:
Dating takes a lot of time. Much of that time is wasted. On people who are not a good fit. On idiotic things like swiping on Tinder or going to clubs (screws with sleep). Casual dating = trading our time and energy for sex and reassuring our ego that we are desirable.
Monogamous long-term relationships can be great if we are together with someone who is a true friend and shares our values — I was in a MLTR that truly made my life better and it might happen again. But MLTRs are a challenging solution for sexual desires. Human biology is not monogamous. I quote: “Overall, of the 1,231 cultures in the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook, 84.6 percent are classified as polygynous [one man many women], 15.1 percent as monogamous, and 0.3 percent as polyandrous [one woman many men].” [1].
Just straight up paying for sex in one-time cash meetings off the Internet is frankly emotionally-unpleasant.
Masturbation doesn’t deliver the same benefits for some reason. It seems we do trick our brains, but not fully.
Further reading:
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