I really can't always live in a certain preset and "should". If you don't love, just say, it's good to get together and break up. When you break up, you can go to your respective lovers... This is the ideal state. But the plot in real life will not follow this "should". If your husband does something "shouldn't", you can only choose to accept or not. People really can't be trapped in this kind of "should" for the rest of their lives, and live on the moral stick for the rest of their lives. Th...

I really can't always live in a certain preset and "should". If you don't love, just say, it's good to get together and break up. When you break up, you can go to your respective lovers... This is the ideal state. But the plot in real life will not follow this "should". If your husband does something "shouldn't", you can only choose to accept or not. People really can't be trapped in this kind of "should" for the rest of their lives, and live on the moral stick for the rest of their lives. Th...

I think this year, I have had a big cognitive change (I'm talking about a real change of thought and internalized in the heart and externalized in action, rather than simply "awareness"), that is: in front of myself, don't take yourself too seriously; in front of others, don't take yourself too seriously. "Don't take yourself too seriously in front of yourself" means that we ourselves, in this world, have and there is only one. Everyone comes to the world in a unique way, and they will walk u...

I think this year, I have had a big cognitive change (I'm talking about a real change of thought and internalized in the heart and externalized in action, rather than simply "awareness"), that is: in front of myself, don't take yourself too seriously; in front of others, don't take yourself too seriously. "Don't take yourself too seriously in front of yourself" means that we ourselves, in this world, have and there is only one. Everyone comes to the world in a unique way, and they will walk u...