There is a famous dialogue in the ancient prose. Hanshanzi asked Shide, "how can people in the world slander me, bully me, humiliate me, laugh at me, despise me and base me?" Shide smiled and said, "just bear him, let him, avoid him, let him, bear him, respect him, ignore him, and see him in a few years." Such Zen language actually contains many philosophies of life, and tolerance is a very important philosophy of life. One should forgive at least three people with tolerance in one's lif...