so, even though I am not your parent, nor a guardian, a close relative like that, I worry and I worry, and I would like to be, accepted for this, maybe not answers to all, just let me worry, not be there just when you are alone, be there through it all, through every step cause I want to know how to help you, not just get you out of it, but be there, swimming through the ocean while you fall, while you struggle, I want to paddle along, or just be there with my hand out, when you are about to ...