As it turned out we went to lunch several times, and she always wore a hat during the meal. I think that treatments of some sort had caused a lot of her hair to fall out. We shared things about our lives. I told her about my schooling and growing up. She told me that she had worked for years for an insurance company. She never mentioned family, and I did not ask. We spoke of authors we both had read, and it was easy to tell that books are a GREat love of hers. I have thought about her often o...

As it turned out we went to lunch several times, and she always wore a hat during the meal. I think that treatments of some sort had caused a lot of her hair to fall out. We shared things about our lives. I told her about my schooling and growing up. She told me that she had worked for years for an insurance company. She never mentioned family, and I did not ask. We spoke of authors we both had read, and it was easy to tell that books are a GREat love of hers. I have thought about her often o...

上周出差的最后一站是武汉。周末的江城阴雨绵绵，气温下降到6度左右。我裹着大衣打着一柄小伞，在水汽弥漫的东湖边找寻一碗传说中的热干面。武汉这城市来了五六回，见过樱花飞雨、梅香四溢，也听过编钟声响、勾践剑鸣，着实已经熟悉。敝薄粗陋、名士风流，是这城市矛盾又美丽的景致。 倒是没想到，武汉一周前的雨云终于飘到了南国，这个周末开始淅淅沥沥，至今未歇。我本就是讨厌寒凉的人，这种天气更是缩在大披肩里昏昏欲睡。迷迷糊糊地想，南国的冬天，也是要来了吗？ 想起在家乡和北京度过的那么多个冬天，印象最深的是渗进骨头里的冷。家里似乎还好一点，在北京那么多年，每年供暖之前、结束供暖之后的一个月最是难熬。在帝都我才知道，“风刮在脸上如刀割一般”居然不是个比喻，而是真真切切的写实。所以发现南国是个没有冬天的地方时，就想赖在这温暖里，哪儿都不想去。 生活总是会面临变革，从北到南的过程里，从现在到未来的时间里。好在人总是在变革里成长的，逐渐会找到属于自己的路。 逐暖而居，砥砺前行。

上周出差的最后一站是武汉。周末的江城阴雨绵绵，气温下降到6度左右。我裹着大衣打着一柄小伞，在水汽弥漫的东湖边找寻一碗传说中的热干面。武汉这城市来了五六回，见过樱花飞雨、梅香四溢，也听过编钟声响、勾践剑鸣，着实已经熟悉。敝薄粗陋、名士风流，是这城市矛盾又美丽的景致。 倒是没想到，武汉一周前的雨云终于飘到了南国，这个周末开始淅淅沥沥，至今未歇。我本就是讨厌寒凉的人，这种天气更是缩在大披肩里昏昏欲睡。迷迷糊糊地想，南国的冬天，也是要来了吗？ 想起在家乡和北京度过的那么多个冬天，印象最深的是渗进骨头里的冷。家里似乎还好一点，在北京那么多年，每年供暖之前、结束供暖之后的一个月最是难熬。在帝都我才知道，“风刮在脸上如刀割一般”居然不是个比喻，而是真真切切的写实。所以发现南国是个没有冬天的地方时，就想赖在这温暖里，哪儿都不想去。 生活总是会面临变革，从北到南的过程里，从现在到未来的时间里。好在人总是在变革里成长的，逐渐会找到属于自己的路。 逐暖而居，砥砺前行。

I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude. We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men than when we stay in our chambers. A man thinking or working is always alone, let him be where he will. Solitude is not measured by the miles of space that intervene between a man and his fellows. The really di...

I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude. We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men than when we stay in our chambers. A man thinking or working is always alone, let him be where he will. Solitude is not measured by the miles of space that intervene between a man and his fellows. The really di...